Maybe you were too nice, women like you to be a bit "masterful", make decisions for them occasionally. They like it!. Cecilia help me out here, you'll be able to explain it better. I don't mean order them about or anything, but don't be a doormat. It's difficult being a modern man and a {bleep} at the same time, but it keeps you on your toes! Text her, "8pm, 'NAME OF LOCAL BAR', Friday night, don't be late" then just show up. God loves a tryer remember.
ok, i'll do my best: while it's ok for a guy to ask my opinion of where i might want to go and do, or go and eat, if i get asked ALL the time, there's no opportunity for surprise. no chance to see what the guy likes to do and therefore no way to really do any communicating.
plus, it feels like the guy is only a slave to my wishes. and while that may sound ok to some people, trust me, it can be a bore. it also means i have to make ALL the decisions. and that's tiresome.
the one thing that will kill any relationship - old or new - is predictablity and boredom. if you knew exactly what the guy will say and do, there's no surprise, no tension, no excitment.
what girls want is some excitment. some unpredictability. no, not a massmurderer or a criminal, but someone with the balls to be himself without being a freaking bully. having an opinion and not being afraid to state it is sexy. if you like a girl, just say so! ghod damn it! don't be such a puss!
even if it shocks her. maybe, when she has time to think about it, she'll like it!
don't be afraid to shake people up. it's attractive to be a bit "wild".
trust me. :-P
