cecilia wrote:
ok, i'll do my best: while it's ok for a guy to ask my opinion of where i might want to go and do, or go and eat, if i get asked ALL the time, there's no opportunity for surprise. no chance to see what the guy likes to do and therefore no way to really do any communicating.
So I am in order arranging a fun date downhill mountain biking, competing in a triathlon or perhaps spending all day drinking beer?
;-)
plus, it feels like the guy is only a slave to my wishes. and while that may sound ok to some people, trust me, it can be a bore. it also means i have to make ALL the decisions. and that's tiresome.
HALLELUJAH! That means I can use some "creativity" in selecting the venue of a prospective date, safe in the knowledge that she'll enjoy being surprised. Boy will she be surprised when I turn up with a a load of spare biking gear.... Or maybe suggesting a beer festival?
what girls want is some excitment. some unpredictability. no, not a massmurderer or a criminal, but someone with the balls to be himself without being a freaking bully. having an opinion and not being afraid to state it is sexy. if you like a girl, just say so! ghod damn it! don't be such a puss!
even if it shocks her. maybe, when she has time to think about it, she'll like it!
don't be afraid to shake people up. it's attractive to be a bit "wild".
trust me. :-P
So downhill mountain biking is a guaranteed lady-puller then? LOL!
Sorry Cecilia for having a little fun at your expense here, but it's Thursday, I'm at work an in a mischeivous mood...
On this subject, I think it's always best to be or appear to be happy and comfortable with yourself. You wouldn't want to talk to an attractive, but miserable looking lass and the same is true when it comes to us blokes. Regardless of how well you scrub up, you'll never turn a lady's head unless you appear to be at ease with yourself...
