Why is everyone making this so tough for the poor guy? All he wants is more free RAM at boot-up.
I suggest:
1) make a backup of your workbench disk.
2) go to the backup, and delete s:startup-sequence
3) boot from backup
4) about a half second later, you'll be greeted with a command prompt, along with as much free RAM as you possibly can have on your configuration.
Granted, you'll be missing the nice workbench interface, shell-seg, setpatch, and a few other nicities, but it's a command prompt, with a heap of free RAM, which IS the goal here. (note, RAM: disk may not function with no startup-sequence, at all. I forget. If this is the case, you may need a startup-sequence that contains the command "binddrivers" -- I'd try it without, first.)