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Re: Gay men acting badly, doing the ugly in public.
« Reply #14 on: March 25, 2004, 10:23:38 PM »
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I know there are gays who are behaving badly.
But it is the attitude, it's what this thread is states, wich made me angry.


Yes, but Redrumloa is not one of those with the attitude.
 

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Re: Gay men acting badly, doing the ugly in public.
« Reply #15 on: March 25, 2004, 10:24:20 PM »
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Speelgoedmannetje wrote:
@KennyR
I know there are gays who are behaving badly.
But it is the attitude, it's what this thread is states, wich made me angry.
He could as well there's state when there's a war goin' on in Africa:
"Black people acting badly"


This is the DMZ, Talkabout, Coffee House or whatever it is called nowadays:-)

I mean honestly, I can go through and list many more worse attention grabbing titles than this. How many "Stupid American" threads have there been in just the last week?
Here a couple just on casual glance.
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Should incestuous marriages be allowed in America?

Bush up to his dirty tricks again

The real problem with America(ns)


This is the fire, and it's aweful hot aint it? :lol:
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Re: Gay men acting badly, doing the ugly in public.
« Reply #16 on: March 25, 2004, 10:25:48 PM »
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Because of the anti-gay attitude of the avarage American.

So you are accusing me of a prejudice because of your own admitted anti-american prejudice? At least you are honest about it.
No, I rather wanted to point out that there is apparently still a lot of gay hatred around, and I was naive about this. It's probably wrong of me to say the avarage American, but I noticed that there are a hell of a lot Americans between the gay bashers on the internet.

But hey, half my family is American, so it'd be rather foolish if I was plain anti-American.
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Re: Gay men acting badly, doing the ugly in public.
« Reply #17 on: March 25, 2004, 10:28:33 PM »
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Speelgoedmannetje wrote:
I know there are gays who are behaving badly.
But it is the attitude, it's what this thread is states, wich made me angry.


Yes, but Redrumloa is not one of those with the attitude.
Okay, that convinces me.

Still, be wary of the news you get. (no matter what kind)

And especially, how it is presented.
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Re: Gay men acting badly, doing the ugly in public.
« Reply #18 on: March 25, 2004, 11:15:55 PM »
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What is the attraction of drive-by casual sex in public places with complete strangers? What gives with the almost daily news of large groups of men getting arrested for having sex in public places?
I'm affraid that's just what perverts do. :(

There's a whole, highly publicised, event up in Sydney each year which features simmilar perverted acts in public!


The reason it hapens, I guess, is that there is too much support for it in public culture these days. (Such acts were much more rare only decades ago)

 

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Re: Gay men acting badly, doing the ugly in public.
« Reply #19 on: March 25, 2004, 11:17:02 PM »
Here you have it, Iama has entered the room! As a fly attracted to a rotten corpse!
ALL gays are perverts! Spread the word!
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Re: Gay men acting badly, doing the ugly in public.
« Reply #20 on: March 25, 2004, 11:47:42 PM »
This is a gay thing? Funny, I don't see any mention of women meeting up and having sex in those stories, which would be true if homosexuals were more likely to do this.

If there is a difference, I'd suggest it's more that *men* (or a small but significant minority of them, at least) are morely likely to do sex with a random stranger. A consequence of it only being men is that it ends up being homosexual - I'm sure there are *plenty* of men who would love to meet up in public and have sex with a random female stranger, but let's face it, doing so is a lot harder;)

Another thing to note is that it says many of these men are family men. I'd suggest that these are men who may not be out about being gay or bi. Since they have a wife and maybe kids, they can't exactly bring a guy over, so they look for some easy public place. The reverse situation of a person in a gay relationship being in the closet about being straight or bi seems a lot less likely to me, given the way that people are brought up to assume that being straight is the normal standard default way to be.

And there are plenty of straight couples having sex in public places. But I wouldn't claim that the straight scene (whatever that is) is misbehaving.
 

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Re: Gay men acting badly, doing the ugly in public.
« Reply #21 on: March 26, 2004, 12:48:15 AM »
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but I noticed that there are a hell of a lot Americans between the gay bashers on the internet.


Er, you might wanna rephrase that...
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Re: Gay men acting badly, doing the ugly in public.
« Reply #22 on: March 26, 2004, 09:59:05 AM »
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Speelgoedmannetje wrote:
but I noticed that there are a hell of a lot Americans between the gay bashers on the internet.


Er, you might wanna rephrase that...
A high percentage of the gay bashers who are American
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Re: Gay men acting badly, doing the ugly in public.
« Reply #23 on: March 26, 2004, 04:34:14 PM »
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Karlos wrote:
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Speelgoedmannetje wrote:
but I noticed that there are a hell of a lot Americans between the gay bashers on the internet.


Er, you might wanna rephrase that...
A high percentage of the gay bashers who are American


Better. Bit less of a direct visual misinterpretation of your original meaning now :-D
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Re: Gay men acting badly, doing the ugly in public.
« Reply #24 on: March 26, 2004, 04:39:12 PM »
:oops: S-sorry, I see it now. I assumed it'd mean the same in English as it does in Dutch.
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Re: Gay men acting badly, doing the ugly in public.
« Reply #25 on: March 26, 2004, 04:42:25 PM »
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A high percentage of the gay bashers who are American


What's the percentage? I think I can only recall 2 people who "bash" homosexuals (if by "bash" you mean saying it's wrong) and of those 2, only one is American.
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Re: Gay men acting badly, doing the ugly in public.
« Reply #26 on: March 26, 2004, 04:47:46 PM »
@T-Bone
Yes, here on Aorg, but I noticed elsewhere on the internet a hell of a lot hatred of Americans towards gays. An unequivalent amount of hatred.
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Re: Gay men acting badly, doing the ugly in public.
« Reply #27 on: March 26, 2004, 05:08:27 PM »
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:oops: S-sorry, I see it now. I assumed it'd mean the same in English as it does in Dutch.


It's ok, I mean it does, really. I was just making a little joke to lighten the thread a litte :-)
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Re: Gay men acting badly, doing the ugly in public.
« Reply #28 on: March 26, 2004, 05:16:58 PM »
I don't think this has anything to do with these men being homosexual, I think it has more to do with them being MEN!! :lol:
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Re: Gay men acting badly, doing the ugly in public.
« Reply #29 from previous page: March 26, 2004, 05:19:18 PM »
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I don't think this has anything to do with these men being homosexual, I think it has more to do with them being MEN!! :lol:
My thoughts too.

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:pint: ah well, but was it correct English or not? (I try my best)
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