red,
i think i'm the last one to refuse to use facebook 
Nah, I am here with you. Social networking in and of itself is not an Evil Thing(tm), however, the way Mark "I'm the CEO, Bitch!" Zuckerberg implements it is not only a Bad Thing(tm) but a Dangerous Thing(tm).
I read an article recently about how Facebook is today what AOL was in the 90s. And I have to agree to a degree. I will be waiting for the next decade before I jump on-board.
Sounds funny from a guy who used to have all of his legitimate contact information and birthday in ICQ and on his personal web page. But then, that was the 90s. The threat landscape has changed drastically since then.