You've got to have the right attitude, and quite frankly, you don't.
You are absolutely right. I don't. I take this site very, very personally after 9 years of running it -- despite the multiple attempts to destroy it by hackers, rival sites, and even the main companies involved in the Amiga community.
Over the last month or so, I poured a majority of my time and heart into this MANDATORY Xoops upgrade. I invited literally dozens of people in to take a sneak peak (and to solicit feedback) and everyone seemed to LOVE the changes. I put them online, and I'm being attacked on a very personal level for my efforts, so forgive me if I seem a little disgusted by the responses to the new site.
Once again, I am *forced* to wonder exactly why in the hell I bother to try and support this community any more. It seems the more effort I put into this site, the more I am made (by admittedly a few users) to regret it and I simply don't know what to do from this point.