hmmm, with regard to memory, you may find that some form of accelerator, be it a cyberstorm2/3/warp engine or whatever, maybe be an easier route to expand that memory than finding a DKB128 or fastlane card.
not saying they aren't out there, but i usually see accelerators more than DKB's or fastlanes
:-)
(and 060 it if you can, but an 040 is good too :-D)