Thanks for your help guys!
I made another step forward. I found that an address pin (A14) on one of the RAM chips was not soldered properly. (Shame on me, as I used to make SMD protoypes for a living up to 6 months ago!)
After fixing it, I have now a black screen, and activity on the RAM and CPU buses.
The kickstart I am using works with UAE, so I still have some more hardware issues to look into. I suspect a faulty RAM...
Unfortunately, the RAM test as provided by Dennis is not flawless and it will not detect problems on address lines. Currently, on a faulty system it will write data to a wrong address and read it back from the same wrong address. Only data line problems will be detected...
I found a better algorithm, from memtest86
tech info and if I do have time, I'll write my first ever 68k asm program which will be an extensive RAM test

I'll keep you guys posted.
Cheers!
Edwin