Don't risk it. Your A3000 is too valuable to accidentally fry!
Boy are you lucky I'm so daring! I just NOW unplugged my ROM tower to see which way it goes. I am typing this in the very A3000UX that I just pulled the tower from. It's STILL running!
I have a revision 1 ROM tower, and yes I know there was a different tower that is laid out different than this one. I used to have an instruction sheet for 3.1 ROMs that showed it.
Anyway, on this one, "A3000 ROM TOWER REV 1" is farthest from the edge of the case with the mouse/keyboard/joystick ports. U180 is closest the rear of the A3000. U181 is closest the front.
Your A3000 is apparently different than mine because mine is clearly labeled. U182 and U183 are marked as such, and plug into the equally well marked U182 and U183 sockets on the motherboard. I know different rev motherboards have totally different printing on them. My other A3000 without the ROM tower has totally different printing than this one. This one does not have any of the jumpers labeled!