I certainly can't argue with the "because it's pretty" aspect of wanting a Harley. Out of several I was looking at, I bought mine specifically because it matched the color of my truck more than anything else. It was pretty no doubt, and it was the model I wanted, but the color was the cincher.
And you must admit: whatever exhaust you mount on that Japbike, it will never sound as a Harley does
As for sound, I would almost disagree. When you're riding the machine, wearing your helmet (which is strongly recommended), you can't hear any difference between a Harley and a Honda with a good set of Vance and Hines pipes.
I do however understand the mental orgasm aspect of wanting a specific bike. Like I said, I wanted a Heritage as well. I just didn't want to spend all my time working on my bike as opposed to riding it.
Here's the thing though. On a good summer "bike night", a nice Victory, Suzuki, or Honda will get you laid at the exact same rate of speed as your 3x expensive Harley.
Would have taken a look at BMW bikes as well but 1) we don't have a dealer here and 2) not so much into sport touring as opposed to cruiser touring.
Wayne