neofree,
A lot of suggestions, and no fix. OK, here's some more questions, some answers, and maybe, a solution. The simply obvious might have been over-looked.
Answers: Yes, the Paula 8364 ($13.00) is socketed. Has floppy, audio, and RS-232 control. PSU -- not ready to commit to it.
Suggestion: Re-install the floppy cable at the motherboard. Pay attention to PIN 1on the motherboard, and cable PIN 1 stripe. Make sure the drive is DF0, DS0 jumper, and connected at the end of the cable. This is the most common error on re-assembly.