Yeah, but there is a cable (looks like an ide cable) that attaches to the board and then goes to another little card with pins to plug into the ROM socket. That's why I was hoping somebody out there has one of these in their machine already and can tell me the pin-to-cable numbers (from red wire, which I know goes into the 'V' side of the ROM socket).
The box and manual do not show an image of this connector and I wouldn't have known it came with one if I hadn't been curious how it attached to the motherboard and so read the manual as I was packing it up.
I have everything I need I think, I have some ROM sockets, I have pin strips, I have breadboards, I have cables, I have a whack of plugs for cables, I have a soldering iron, steady hands... :-)