@karlos
"Of course, this is a deeply sensetive issue. There rarely is any agreement where emotion is in conflict with rationality."
Even rationally I don't like it. I don't like who made the decision. The government decided she is to die, not that she would be allowed to die, but actively killed. It's not an option that's graciously being extended to someone with no hope, it's an ultimatum that not only extinguishes all hope, but removes all options as well. On top of this, it's in direct conflict with the wishes of her parents, who I cant understand why are not the legal guardians after the husband remarried.
I don't believe the husband is a bad man, I don't necessarily think he's murdered her or in any way wanted any of this to happen, and I understand this would give him closure, but I don't really think he NEEDS this closure after having moved on already. At this point in time, he really should not be considered her guardian.
She's going to die, it's inevitable, and she's probably not going to know one way or the other, but the precident this sets is just bad. If the government ever ordered one of my children to die, and decided I had no say in the matter, I don't know what I'd do, but it's possible they wouldn't let me post here anymore from prison.
If I were the judge, I would have stayed away from the issue altogether, after giving guardianship to her parents. The way things are happening now are too messy.