What about this, let's have the S-video encoder pcb solder pads on the board. And those that want it can simply solder the circuits. The extra space should be neglible.
Alternativly if a breakout board is made for flatcable stuff. One can put it on the breakout board.
Hmm.. maybe DB23M can be recreated with pins and epoxy

Just plug loose connectors to pins in an existing db23 and swipe with oil/grease. Then pour epoxy over it :-)