@cecilia
Thanks for your advice. I think the problem is that I feel very defensive and cautious because I am unsure what she wants from me. In the past normally after my first dates, we've both known whether we fancy each other and get on well enough for a 2nd date. And with her, I thought she was quite fanciable and we got on well enough for me to want a 2nd date. Despite her making me believe she wasn't interested, she said yesterday that she likes me, doesn't know where she wants it go and won't say whether she finds me attractive, but wants a 2nd date to decide, and wants to take it slow, this is new to me, because normally I believe that if you don't click first time then it's not meant to be. Personally, I think this has already been far too much hassle from a person I've only met once and I'm worried I'm paving the way for even more hassle.
@mdma
My position is that after 1 date I like what I see and I fancy her, and I'd like to get to know her better. Her position is that she likes what she sees, doesn't know if she fancies me, and wants to get to know me better.
@KennyR
I think you are right in that she didn't mean it the way I took it. But it's too late for that now, cos now I feel very cautious and uncertain and a bit stressed out about it all!
@mikeymike
She is 24, I'm 25.
