@PMC
Pressing someone into becoming a parent is horribly wrong. My daughter wasn't planned at all, and I beleive that's the best way of procreating. Planning ahead takes too much energy, and sets wierd expectations on the child.
I believe that your girl will be horribly dissapointed when she actually do get a child. Many people only see the good sides with children, and simply refuses to realise how much energy they require.
It happens to often, I am afraid.
