must know what's wrong..
why?

you need to cut people off IMMEDIATELY.
sure, it's annoying not knowing what the F is wrong with some people, but YOU are torturing yourself by constantly calling these people to find out what's their problem.
cut them off. move on. anyone who isn't willing to be honest isn't worthy of your time.
F them.
"See YA!" :whack:
really, you are getting too emotional about these people. stop it.