WEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEKEEEEEND!

[CannonFodder]

Sorry to hear you've had to go through this crap too.

My ex-missus did the same to me with my so called best mate when my boy was about the same age as your kiddie so I know exactly how you feel right now.

As for what to do......

If you want to get drunk, get drunk.  If you want to smash a few things, smash a few things.

You'll probably be on auto pilot for the first few days.

[CannonFodder]

why is it you that has to make an effort to keep in touch with your daughter so she doesn't grow up not having a father?

Because women are more equal than men.  You are so lucky that you'll probably never have to go through having your biological child taken from you.

It is the most painful thing any human can suffer.  Trust me on that, nothing is more painful.

[CannonFodder]

whabang wrote:
I've spent a large part of this day to discuss this matter with my wife.  It looks like your as if we are going to make another attempt to repair a relationship.
Regardless of how badly I have been hurt, I love her, and I want to spend the rest of my life with her, and apparently she wants to spend her life with me as well.
However, it will take quite a while to build up my faith in her again.
We've decided to say tonight to think about how we want our future.

I hope you can both come to terms with what happened and the reasons why it happened and make your relationship stronger God willing.

[CannonFodder]

however, given that there is a child involved, I think it's something you should give serious consideration to.

I'd like to add that my son doesn't remember his mother and I ever being together so  the emotional scarring that an older child would have in the event of a parental divorce is not something he suffers from.

@Whabang
If you find yourself unable to forgive then I would say now is the best time for your daughters emotional well being for you to make the break.  I hope you can work it out though.

[CannonFodder]

whabang wrote:
We thought about things over-night, and this morning we decided to break up. There's no use getting back together if we're going back to our old arguing again. Sad but true. :-(

Thanks for the support guys, I really appreciate your advice.

Lack of communication eh?  I think Odin's idea of counselling is a good idea, it might help if you both still love each other.

[CannonFodder]

Best of luck mate.