guys, one word of advice...
patience!
the reason why its taking so long is self explanable...
here is what i belive happened (happens to me alot) :
1. seller gives u a date, then he forgets it..delays and delays...
2. seller finds it ackward to admit he didnt send it when it was said so he keeps quiet about it.
3. package is sent and STOPPED by the customs due to the seller used unordinary packaging and most likely not enough stamps on it.
4. the customs + postal service does an investigation, and send the package to the next step , while this is happening they forward the reciet to the buyer + the extra fee for using too little stamp money (yes this is the BUYERS problem...ugh)
5. sellers package hits the new country marked with lots of weird ass notes and is stopped by the customs, then its opened and checked, if the seller is unexperienced then he probably forgot to make an EN22 or EN23 note on it so the customs automatically delay the package from 2 weeks to 4 weeks.
6. while everything is happening a dispute evolves between buyer and seller, seller wont admit that he failed and everything gets pretty ugly, then all of a sudden the package arrives to the house of the buyer and all is (hopefully) perfect and buyer sends a short mail where it states... IT CAME... all ok...bye..
i have had packages comming from usa that have taken over 4 months! and yes it was infact sent at the day the seller told me, why?...nah just protocols in the customs and this is normal , belive me thats why YOU ALWAYS GOTTA TELL SELLER TO USE AN EN22 OR EN23 package note where it states whats inside and value and the value shouldnt be higher than 20 uk pounds unless u want to pay alot of toll on it (doesnt count for EU country's , i mean from EU to EU its no prob but EU to UK = PROBLEM etc)
i am sure the packages will turn up at your house approx 3 weeks after the reciept came, but remeber it depends on where u live, ie if ure in the states u might get unlucky like i did, 4 MONTHS after the reciet came!
cheers and good luck .
ps:i dont think its a scam and i say this from experience.