FPU should be ok at up to 50Mhz.. that's whats in mine... so, try the 40Mhz, if that works, step it up!
at least IF the 50Mhz crystal works, you'll have the CPU at 25Mhz

edit: which FPU do you have? 68882? or 68881?
if the FPU doesn't work at higher speed, you can probably remove it and use a 60Mhz crystal, the specs say you can run the 68882 at upto 60Mhz, so I assume the rest of the card will accept this, I assume everything else is running at half this speed anyway.