What about a USB Ethernet dongle? We're talking USB speeds of 12MB/sec on this baby!!
Ethernet on USB2 is definitely the way to go here.
About the 12MB/s measurement: it was on a A3640 card, which has no onboard RAM. So the 12MB/s are Zorro III to motherboard RAM, and the speed is higher as on CPU card addon RAM, as there are fewer levels of logic in the data path (bus drivers, MACHs, ...). On the other hand, the A3640 is dead slow when accessing motherboard RAM, so things equalize here again.
You can expect DMA performances of the about 8MB/s to 10MB/s in real life, depending on the hardware setup you have, and about 4MB/s to 6MB/s when running in PIO mode (as explained on a1k.org this is a matter of Buster features, indeed).
But don't fix me on these numbers, development is still ongoing, and timings may or may not change - better have a stable system with slightly less performance than a faster system with hangups and data losses.
Speed is not everything.
Michael