@ZeBeeDee
Looking at the picture of the IDE-Fix adapter (see below) ... Pin 1 (the one that red stripe on cable connects to) is on the bottom edge of the adaptor, denoted by the 1 printed on the board.
Heh, there is no 1 in my adaptor. There is a tiny resistor where the 1 should be and the 5x2 plug is vertical, not horizontal! I guess i have a different revision. Anyway, i got the picture on how to connect the cable thanks to you. :-)
EDIT: Oh... what i initially saw as a "1" in your picture, seems to be that tiny resistant, afterall? I am still not sure where the "1" is. :-(
I'm talking about that tiny mark between the IDE-to-mobo plug and the express plug in the bottom-right corner of the card.
I presume, that in your second question, you refer to the 5 pin connector on the edges of both cards?
Right.
According to the makers, if you plug the cable in the wrong way around then the software will nag you to swap it to the correct orientation ... nothing will break or go bang as the software will do a diagnostic upon startup and report any installation or adaptor faults.
Neat. Since there are no dangers, i will just try and see.