right, i think after two nights of pratting about with this thing i've got it nailed.
you're right, the 3.1rom is compatable with the A600, so thats good. :-) managed to boot workbench 3.1
after more trouble shooting, it looks like the floppy drive is playing up. not sure if it needs re-aligning, or a clean or what, but for some reason, it doesn't like any of my external drives either. not that any of them are "known good", but its a bit suspect that out of four externals, no floppy drive wants to work without throwing up errors.
parallel and serial ports work fine, parnet/sernet work ok. video is good, audio is fine. just that floppy drive producing random "read/write error on disk block xxxx". can usually click ok and it goes away, only that it comes back again on another random disk block. the floppy disks are ok as they work fine in any other machine. just gets a bit tiresome booting workbench off of floppy to have to click OK about 6 or 7 times after sitting through
"gree grunk, gree grunk, gree grunk - can't read that bit, try again? ok, oh i can read it now... hang on, gree grunk gree grunk, no. i dunno what this next bit means either. try again?"
i guess another order to amigakit... :-D