Easiest solution: Buy a bog standard PC floppy cable.
These usually have 3 connectors. The ribbon cable goes straight (as in no twists) between the first and the middle connector, and has a twist in the ribbon between the middle and the last connector.
Use the straight untwisted bit, and chop off the last connector with the twist on it.
Using an IDE cable: Possible, but because the IDE cable has got 40 pins as opposed to the floppy cable's 34 pins, 6 pins will remain unused. Most floppy drives have some spare room next to the connector where this extra bit can go, but be very careful with getting the right pins in.
A floppy drive will normally not die/explode with an incorrectly inserted cable, but simply refuse to work.
Oh, and one more thing: On the A4000D motherboard, there is a jumper, J352, that allows you to use an external drive as df0:
pins 1-2 = DF0: and DF1: internal, DF2: and DF3: external
pins 2-3 = DF1: and DF2: internal, DF0: and DF3: external
-Paul