@starf81,
Check for the +5V and 0V here:

I have indicated where to probe, I can't remember which is +5V and 0V but you will soon see on your DMM.
Once you find which is +5V and 0V, connect from your ATX PSU to your Apollo card using one of the floppy drive connectors of the PSU. It may sound daft but I had to do a similar thing to get my damn SX32 to work, once I had done that, it worked fine.
As a guide, the +5V rail should be above 4.85 Volts when measured with a DMM for the CPU to work, this allows for 100mv of noise the meter will not 'see'.