Have you ever turned down sex to indulge in an alternative passtime?

[Speelgoedmannetje]

seer wrote:
No love here  :-?

Not here, but there.

[seer]

That's very noble dude, you should be proud of yourself.

Maybe. It can be frustrating tho, in a way, sex is someting a male needs. And most (male) friends just don't seem to understand.

Let's just say meaningless sex has no meaning for me. It's far better if you love her, and she loves you back.


Anyway.. Thing are looking up on the love front.. Who knows, maybe somewhere in september I might be with the girl I want as my future better half.. But's to early to tell..

[seer]

Not here, but there.

To lead a better life
I need my love to be here

Here, making each day of the year
Changing my life with a wave of her hand
Nobody can deny that there's something there

There, running my hands through her hair
Both of us thinking how good it can be
Someone is speaking, but she doesn't know he's there

I want her everywhere
And if she's beside me I know I need never care
But to love her is to need her

Everywhere, knowing that love is to share
Each one believing that love never dies
Watching her eyes and hoping I'm always there

I want her everywhere
And if she's beside me I know I need never care
But to love her is to need her

I will be there, and everywhere
Here, there and everywhere

The Beatles
Lennon & McCartney

[Cyberus]

seer wrote:
That's very noble dude, you should be proud of yourself.

Maybe. It can be frustrating tho, in a way, sex is someting a male needs. And most (male) friends just don't seem to understand.

Let's just say meaningless sex has no meaning for me. It's far better if you love her, and she loves you back.


Anyway.. Thing are looking up on the love front.. Who knows, maybe somewhere in september I might be with the girl I want as my future better half.. But's to early to tell..

@seer

I'm in a similar position to yourself I think. I am separated from the lady in question by circumstance, and about 2000km :-( . But that hopefully is all about to change. Ever since I met her, I can't even really think about another girl, not even a really pretty one :-o. She is my princess, I feel as if I'd rather spend a lifetime alone than be with anyone else; that I'd give everything I own to be with her again, just for another day - as it stands I might end up having to do that anyway :-o Of course all my friends tell me to not be an idiot! But if I am being foolish, only I can learn that lesson...

Don't ever think that you're wrong though, don't ever give up faith. If people want to base their entire life around their sex drive, then that's their problem. Its not as if I don't have hormones though. Jesu, sometimes they almost tear me apart! :lol:

But the way I see it, I'd rather wait to have a single glass of vintage Champagne than have three bottles of cheap wine in the meantime
If anyone understands my analogy... :lol:

[Speelgoedmannetje]

Cyberus wrote:
But the way I see it, I'd rather wait to have a single glass of vintage Champagne than have three bottles of cheap wine in the meantime
If anyone understands my analogy... :lol:

But you have to taste the wines to know what's the vintage Champagne. Other than wine, ppl have no real label on them wich states what's inside.

[seer]

@Cyberus

About the the girl it's about..

Yeah, I'm a fool.. After hearing absolutely nothing she appears again.. We talked a lot.. She needs time.. And I got plenty of that.. Sort of..

[Cyberus]

Speelgoedmannetje wrote:

Cyberus wrote:
But the way I see it, I'd rather wait to have a single glass of vintage Champagne than have three bottles of cheap wine in the meantime
If anyone understands my analogy... :lol:

But you have to taste the wines to know what's the vintage Champagne. Other than wine, ppl have no real label on them wich states what's inside.

I have tasted a few wines already, although I was probably too drunk to notice how they tasted ;-)

[Robert17]

Ummm to be honest that's just an emoticon from msn messenger as I can't be bothered to find a decent avatar lol however it does also reflect my mood sometimes... it means bleh :-)

Robert

[PMC]

seer wrote:
That's very noble dude, you should be proud of yourself.

Maybe. It can be frustrating tho, in a way, sex is someting a male needs. And most (male) friends just don't seem to understand.

Let's just say meaningless sex has no meaning for me. It's far better if you love her, and she loves you back.


Anyway.. Thing are looking up on the love front.. Who knows, maybe somewhere in september I might be with the girl I want as my future better half.. But's to early to tell..

@Seer

I wish I could say that I had the willpower to hold out for someone I had strong feelings for, but it's easy to get cynical and give in to one's natural urges.

To live your life this way by choice is still a very noble act though and I wish you the very best of luck in your efforts.

[Speelgoedmannetje]

Cyberus wrote:
I have tasted a few wines already, although I was probably too drunk to notice how they tasted ;-)

and in the rush of drunkiness it went on and on until...


uuuhhh, I should stop about this I think

[Dr_Righteous]

I can't say I've ever turned it down for another activity.. Generally I'll only turn it down when I'm not, or no longer, interested in having sex with a particular woman.

I like to break sex down into three catagories: Lovemaking, General Sex, and F{bleep}ing. A completely spiritual and intimate moment, regular sex but still caring about the other person, and throw down - we're only here cuz we need to get-off... Respectively.

Each has it's merit and purpose, and I believe each should be tried by everyone at least one time before even considering settling down.

But that's just me.

[whabang]

What is the most impressive thing that you've all turned down a night of steamy passion for?

Nothing, really,
I've postponed it a few times.
But, then, I'm still young! :-)

[PMC]

Cyberus wrote:

I have tasted a few wines already, although I was probably too drunk to notice how they tasted ;-)

But did you sample them again in the morning?

[elendil]

T_Bone wrote:
Lol!

I've turned down sex for all kinds of things!

Overtime, fishing, TV, shopping, answering the phone :lol:, eating, sleep...

but it's not really "turning it down", it's more like postponing it untill later ;-)

Precisely what I would have said if I could have worded it like that

Sincerely,

-Kenneth Straarup.

[seer]

Precisely what I would have said if I could have worded it like that

In that case.. I postponed (or however it's typed) it indefenitly (or however it's typed) :-D