Wow, Thanks so much Antti,
That's really helpfull! I already tried several jumper options (Removing the one from ST2, several memory settings using JX A+B from the manual, using the switch, or disconnecting it), but all without luck. I never took out the Gary adapter though. I've orders some connectors from China to create a custom cable. Might take a while before they arrive though. With your pin-layout I can connect the whole thing and hopelfully have it running with most memory available.
Thanks again! I will post a reply once I have every setup and tested.
Cheers.