The "clamp" is a thin ring of plastic at the very top of the insert site, it should easily lift with two fingers of one hand about 1 - 2 mm and with the other hand push the ribbon cable back in, then push the "clamp" back in to help wedge the ribbon into its connector. If done carefully you can bypass lifting the clamp, if done poorly you make break the clamp and need a drop of hot glue to hold it in place.
If you haven't figured this out, a better place to work on small, electronic parts is on a flat, clean work desk in a room with hard floor. The best place to loose parts is in any -- preferably shag -- carpet or a grassy knoll in Texas, sitting on anything with cushions with a dog, cat, or small child under foot. A strong magnetic pad for the parts and a strong magnetic wand with a led head lamp will allow less misadventures.