here was the problem: i have a LAN adapter on my A1200 but not on my A4000. So I needed to copy everything to floppy otherwise there was no way I could get it to my 4000. After I got the files extracted on my 1200 I needed to copy them to a floppy to get them to my 4000. I installed Directory Opus 5.5 on my 1200 and then on an empty floppy, did a makedir and made all dirs that were in the unzipped .lha of IDEFix. Then did a copy/move (I chose move) making sure I was in the correct directory on the IDEFix floppy like the c: directory and copying all the files over by selecting them all and doing the move command with Directory Opus. Same for home dir of the floppy. I noticed when using the copy shell command in regular workbench I probably entered the wrong switch but for whatever reason it didn't copy the directories and everything in them. So it never was anything to do with "Installer" and my Workbench 3.1 had a high enough version to install. Everything is now working, emulating CD32 and sealed back up now.
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