The mediator needs power to it directly as well as the motherboard,otherwise you will be trying to pull ridiculous amperage thru the zorro connector,and eventually it may burn it up(if you havent already). pull he slotboard out and check the contacts in it,i bet you will see some that carry the 5v are discolored.It will probabaly still work tho.
the mediator and cards draw a good few amount of amps on the 5v side,so the mediator definately needs power directly to its connector. most good bus boards work this way.
Mike