4GB RAM no longer cuts it.
4Gb is a huge amount of memory and should be enough for any conceivable purpose, if the OS and application aren't poorly written bloatware.
a cooperative multitasked OS with incomplete preemptive scheduling, no network stack out of the box and severely limited security and performance
Are you talking about any of the AmigaOSes here? Because they all have full preemptive multitasking and TCP/IP stacks, and they all are very efficient (especially OS3.9) and thus highly performant.