I have 3 warp engines all 040 40's. The scsi works great, as they are not as picky as some. The ram is thought. I really don't know what to look for in the 32meg simms. I have only one set out of three that is recognized by the we. So only 1 we has 128megs, the other we's all have 64megs each. BTW I have double sided simms on it also but it is a tight fit.
In the 3000 I had to remove the drive tray and hack a hole in it for the simms. The daughter was a real tight fit, giving it a slight bend. Of course this is because all my we's are 4000 types with 4 simm sockets all alighned verticaly instead slanted like the 2 on a 3000 we.
Wish I could figure how to 060 mine. :-D