A very personal problem

[Karlos]

One piece of advice: Never mix business and pleasure.

[Karlos]

motorollin wrote:
I'm not sure how he would react. I think it would be too hard for him to accept that I've been feeling this way about somebody else.

Second piece of advice: Change your signature, lest he ever reads here and recognises the rigs ;-)

[Karlos]

motorollin wrote:

the_leander wrote:
office romances are seriously bad news.

I know. That's why I said it's out of the question. I guess I'm just looking for some advice from someone who has been in the same position as I need to get past this without hurting anybody or making an idiot of myself.

I've never been in such a situation but I can say that "getting shafted by the boss" should be strictly too-much-work or too-little-pay related only ;-)

[Karlos]

And I thought just being straight was complicated enough :lol:

[Karlos]

Perhaps you need a break from work...

[Karlos]

Speelgoedmannetje wrote:
I doubt your b/f will have much trouble with you having a quick snack, as long as you come home for dinner.

Hmmm....

Actually, unless homosexual relationships are emotionally quite different, I'd have thought that the hurt caused by having a bit of a fling would be just as bad as it is for heterosexual relationships :-?

[Karlos]

What about those bone... bones?