I basically use my computer for surfing and some simple web-design. I want a small, fast OS without web-servers, advanced backup utilities (I burn everything to CD), and three zillion other utilities that I have no use for.
I've never seen a Linux distro installer that you
couldn't choose to install totally unnecessary stuff.
X however, is a valid target for "bloatware" criticisms. How many typical Windows users need a GUI interface that can run over TCP/IP?