Why have I been surrounded by so many f'ing *BLEEPS* in the last few months??? :-x

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@Iamaboringperson
Haven't had your medicines, now have you?

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T_Bone wrote:

It's not the sexuality that freaks me out, it's that HANDSHAKE!  :-o (Although I've come to realise straight people with limp handshakes freak me out as well)  :lol:

Maybe I'm an old fart, but when someone gives me a limp handshake, it feels like I've been goosed. Gays with firm handshakes don't bother me at all.

/old fart

Ok, so I'm not really a homophobe, I'm a limphandshakeophobe.

hm, I somehow like that aspect. But I have a firm handshake. That's what I hate about myself: physically, I'm just a big, strong, clumsy and crude caveman

the only way I could give one a limphandshake is if I would get RSI

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limp handshakes forever! :-D

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Wain wrote:

Maybe I'm an old fart, but when someone gives me a limp handshake, it feels like I've been goosed. Gays with firm handshakes don't bother me at all.

I'm with you here.  Crushing handshakes are obnoxious and rude, and limp handshakes leave me feeling like I've just touched something slimey.

'limp handshakes' are kinda new for me. I think of it as something quite civilized. Kinda like: keeping a certain distance to each other, while not ignoring each other...

but nothing beats the eastern bow as greeting

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PMC wrote:
Anyway, just because someone's gay doesn't mean that they're in any way a threat to you.  Gay people have been known to have happy and monogamous relationships too...  

Why should one have a monogamous relationship? As long as ppl are honest to each other, I do not see ANY problem in polygamous relationships.
Or is this again an aspect of the victorian romantic view of the realizable world?

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KennyR wrote:

Speel wrote:
Why should one have a monogamous relationship? As long as ppl are honest to each other, I do not see ANY problem in polygamous relationships.

Polygyny is like communism. Sounds great in theory, but in practice...

...in practice ppl should think and decide for themselves about that. Every situation and person is different, y'know. To condemn such is petty meddlesomeness I think.

@PMC
sorry about that I misinterpreted your intentions

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Well, the fact that the majority of ppl are competitive really doesn't mean EVERY SINGLE person on this planet is competitive.

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oh no! not again about that evolution thing
We do not have yet a clue about the incredible complex phenomenon/hypothesis of evolution, so plz do not use that word as an argument.

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Competition is bad for a social system, wich is, as far as I know, the main aspect of humans.

look at third world countries, and you'll see I'm right. It's there where much competition is and with competition comes distrust and with distrust, there's no functioning of a group.

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okay, we should rather talk about "group competition" and "individual competition" and the latter is bad for the functioning as a group.

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bloodline wrote:
What does that say about me!!!  :nervous:

nothing, I got a closer relation to my mother. (also, I was always the benjamin of the family, and kinda weird and naive boy, so my mother's very protective)

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Cyberus wrote:
Benjamin?

Is that like the 'black sheep of the family'?
i.e. The odd one out


Hmm, Benjamin the Black Sheep...

Ben = kid
benjamin is the youngest kid
(in Jewish language)

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:-? Eh? I don't get you Bloodline.
I thought it was about the 'Fruedian relationship of child and parent'

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iamaboringperson wrote:
I'd punch them. Because it is sick, unnatural, destructive, and perverted.

Make my day! I'll be happy to legally break your neck with my bare hands!

(self defence)

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mdwh2 wrote:
But we're online, so we have to stick with using our brains to discuss this.

:roll:

discuss my *ss.
I don't call it discussing what Iama does here, I call it trolling.