Tigger, that's not correct at all. Ignore whomever gave you this misinformation from now on.
The AIM alliance all have access to the complete PowerPC instruction set. The 162 instructions which AltiVec is comprised of are freely available to all partners. In fact the original engineer who pushed the PowerPC alliance to develop a vector unit was a former Motorola employee working for Apple. There was at no point a restriction made on IBM to produce slow CPUs, that's just 100% rumor bullshit. Motorola doesn't 'own' the instructions, only their implementation which they called AltiVec (which was originally called VMX and after Velocity Engine).
BTW Apple going AMD is another 100% bullshit rumor.
Stop reading rumors, I mean really.