Can I change the regular RAM disk to retain files like the RAD: disk?
No.
Can I increase the size of the RAD: disk and still retain the files?
Yes. Check the RAD icon tooltypes (highcyl). The default is 79, which gives you 880KB. So 1 cyl is 11KB. Thus for example to get roughly 2MB RAD, you would use highcyl of 2048/11 = 186.
Why does RAD: only retain files when it thinks it is a regular disk and not when it is just plain ol' RAD:
It should always retain the files, regardless of how you use it.
I suppose I can create many RAD: disks.
Correct. Just use unique unit for each.