Ok, turns out the FZ357 can be made to work.
http://eab.abime.net/showthread.php?t=9365
That thread is about using a HD drive with 880k disks, it doesn't do anything for using 1.76mb disks.
AFAIK the A2000 motherboard can only generate the drive ID for a 880k disk, so you need a special drive that can generate either an 880k or 1.76mb ID depending on what disk is in the drive and jumper the A2000 to say the drive is not present (all this does is stop the motherboard generating a conflicting ID). The drive also needs to slow down when you insert a HD floppy of course. This is essentially what an FB357A/FZ357A is, I assume the A means Amiga and without it you can't get HD disks working.
The only other reliable solution were the external laptop drives that Dell offloaded after commodore went bankrupt.
If someone reverse engineered the FB357 and FB357A then it's possible you could figure out how to modify one into the other. It might involve designing a new board which might be a good project for kickstarter.