Docnheimer : I have been so lucky so far not to have met such a buyer, but isn´t it safer in general to send the object to the address of the one who does the PayPal payment ?? I also don´t understand why this buyer can dispute the charge on his credit card :-o If you take the winning bid of the auction and add the shipping costs, what problem can there be :-? Really, please do tell me because this is something I really want to avoid in the future !!! If you have lost the object and the money then it´s absolutely no fun anyore on Ebay :-o