If nobody claims it I do hope you ship them to someone who really wants it. Please don't say you will bust it up and throw it away if it does not get picked up (we already talked about that so I don't think you would) But anyhow if someone wants to pay for shipping AND Handling to ship it, do it. But if you have things going on and time is money the buyer should be understanding if it takes a few weeks to get sent, etc. Just my two cents.
Sorry for your loss. I also lost a family member a few weeks ago. Sucks big time.