Toaster Flyer ribbon cable HELP!!

[TjLaZer]

I just bought a Flyer card off ebay.  The seller has no idea about the ribbon cables.  I am not sure either but I do know there is atleast 1 cable that connects the Flyer to the Toaster 4000 card!  Is there just 1 cable??  It's attached to the BNC board correct?  She claims she cannot remove the cable and it is built into the Toaster 4000 card!  So I am thinking she has to remove the BNC board to remove the cable, correct? HELP!!!!

[TjLaZer]

I am flipping pissed off.  The seller would not swap out my BNC board for hers so I can use the flyer card.  Instead she capitalizes on it and resells the toaster on ebay!  I ended up buying one from NewTek, Inc for $50 but I could of had it with my purchase of the Flyer.  People like this really piss me off.  I am restraining myself on leaving her some feedback...