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Re: behaviour (bad)
« on: November 07, 2003, 02:21:11 PM »
Well I just couldn't resist commenting on this thread... I can relate to most of what's been said in this thread.

:ranting: There is a difference between spoken and written language, people become protective of the words that are written because it represents who they are and what they are about, it contains meaning for them and when it changes they feel as though they have lost something of themselves. On the other hand language evolves all the time and dictionaries are being revised constantly. There are also different emphasis put upon words and meanings depending on who you are; for example if you are a doctor, there are strong rules you must follw when writing because accuracy is important or someone could not heal or even die if mistakes are made in interpereting someones work engineers speak in numbers, poets speak a language many of us cannot understand! Artists speak in pictures or even some other way. And then there are other languages completely, like Japanese, Arabic, Slang etc - I think you get my point.

My point is that this all comes down to communication, and someone said it already... The point is to be understood.

:rtfm: I love dictionaries, they contain word meanings and without them we couldn'y communicate in a sophisticated way, people are right to defend them, but it's a balencing act, like most things in life.

:idea: Has anyone mention grammar yet? :pint:
 

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Re: behaviour (bad)
« Reply #1 on: November 07, 2003, 04:41:24 PM »
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MikeyMike wrote: Misppelling leads to an impression of lack of education,
 :lol:

I agree with what you say about impressions mikeymike, but only to a certain extent, when typing something into a forum, I write without too much regard to spelling and grammar except where my point needs to be carefully expressed because I don't want to be missunderstood.

People will take what they want from what they read, when it comes to this kind of net forum, the more effort you put into making yourself clear (by using correct spelling and grammar - from you're local dictionaries and customary rules) the easier they CAN understand what you are saying, but communication is ALWAYS ( I cannot think of an example when it's not) a two way street, it takes one person to express and another to understand, then communication was successful.

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mikeymike wrote: I think I can get the spelling and grammar correctly,
one of my points is; "what is correct?" British english has it's methods and a style of it's own, so does American and so does Australian etc etc etc, so who say's what's right? the person writing the words makes that descision, if it's sloppy, then that's just what it is, again, the person who is reading it will decide how they react to that sloppiness...or humor, or whatever...

The point of all communication is to understand each other, it exists in between all of us.  :nervous:  :crazy:  :-D
 

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Re: behaviour (bad)
« Reply #2 on: November 07, 2003, 04:48:55 PM »
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Speelgoedmannetje wrote:
I mean, my thread was not about bad language, it was about occasionaly bad behaviour on this forum, insulting each other or things like that.


I have noticed some bad behaviour here sometimes too, occasional 'my country is better than your country kind of stuff, but it's a great forum, I read it a lot but don't post too often, on the whole though, it's pretty civilised compared some other forums I have read!  :shocked:
 

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Re: behaviour (bad)
« Reply #3 on: November 07, 2003, 05:43:00 PM »
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mikeymike wrote: I think that is a very complex and subtle subject, as I think most people who are experienced in communicating with people they don't know over the Internet will agree.

Indeed.  :-) As a moderator you would be particularly aware of it.

I prefer British english spelling and grammar myself because thats where the Australian version stemmed from. Americanisms are annoying sometimes but they do make a lot of sense when you think about it, like dropping letters that you cannot hear when you say it, like colour VS color - I've a soft spot for the British ways first.

As all the world's people mix together more, languages are going to mix together as well.

Yo bro, wassup?! carn ya unnerstan wot im sayin? U wannanuva beer guvna? cheers mate.   :pint:  We all understand beer don't we?

PS that's any drink of choice for those that are abstaining from alcohol.  ;-)
 

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Re: behaviour (bad)
« Reply #4 on: November 07, 2003, 05:53:05 PM »
@Speelgoedmannetje

It might help people who say other countries stink if they realised that we all love our countries and don't really need some ignorant person trying to start a fight, or perhaps stumbling into trouble. Although some people like to wrestle and fight, I'm glad you mentioned it, it started a great thread!

Cheers buddy!  :pint:
 

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Re: behaviour (bad)
« Reply #5 on: November 07, 2003, 06:03:47 PM »
octopusses...octopi is better IMHO

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Professor X is cool, funny, cheers mate!   :pint: - boy I'm getting cyber-pissed tonight!
 

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Re: behaviour (bad)
« Reply #6 on: November 07, 2003, 06:08:38 PM »
 :pint:  :pint:  :pint: Actually I'm sober!