Argh - how many times can people say the same things in different ways?
You do not need a 8 pin socket, you already have a socket soldered to the board.
YES - as people keep telling you, the crystal MUST be fitted with the correct orientation.
This is assuming you have the FPU fitted (or have bought one to fit).
Also, as others have said several times - the card should work without the FPU/crystal providing the jumpers are set correctly.
Your statement "C and D also look partially blocked off" concerns me as it sounds as if both of these are already jumpered?