I'll respect the first one of the combatants (CH, Elbox, I really don't care which) who stands up and says, "What's done is done. What's gone is gone. Now let's put this crap behind us, put our egos in neutral and move forward for the benefit of everyone." That's what it's going to take.
If it's gone beyond this, then there's really not enough left to have respect for.
