Why have I been surrounded by so many f'ing *BLEEPS* in the last few months??? :-x

[T_Bone]

bloodline wrote:

iamaboringperson wrote:
Okay, first the fairies are on the train, then they're at a place at which I've been working for a while.

Not only that, but I think one has moved into the group of flats I'm in. (Along with some real derro's)

These pricks really sicken me.

Seriously dude!!! Why are you so frightened of someone's sexuality?

Scared of a gay guy! Isn't that like being frightened of a teddy bear?

It's not the sexuality that freaks me out, it's that HANDSHAKE!  :-o (Although I've come to realise straight people with limp handshakes freak me out as well)  :lol:

Maybe I'm an old fart, but when someone gives me a limp handshake, it feels like I've been goosed. Gays with firm handshakes don't bother me at all.

/old fart

Ok, so I'm not really a homophobe, I'm a limphandshakeophobe.

[T_Bone]

FluffyMcDeath wrote:

iamaboringperson wrote:
I forgot to mention that they're at this college also. :-(

They also exist in small towns but they pretend to be straight so they wont get beat up. Then they marry women (that would otherwise be available to marry a straight guy) so that they "fit in" and don't seem gay.

Tragic really, but also somewhat amusing.

 :lol:

Actually I don't understand why they do that.

Peer pressure? to FIT IN? please.

Would you pretend to be gay and renounce women if it meant you'd fit in, in a gay world? I wouldn't, I'd continue to indulge, conformity be damned! I'd rather be a black sheep that get's laid [by the attracted-to sex] than the white sheep. Who'd fake it? Would you sleep with another guy to be more popular in school/work/society? I wouldn't, and couldn't for that matter, short of holding a gun to my head, and even then I don't know!  :-P

I don't understand it.

[T_Bone]

Speelgoedmannetje wrote:
Well, the fact that the majority of ppl are competitive really doesn't mean EVERY SINGLE person on this planet is competitive.

The whole act of marriage in the first place is competition. You make the decision to get married for several reasons all boiling down to competition. Even competition itself can be boiled down to "goals." To have any goal is to compete. Life itself is competition.

[T_Bone]

Wain wrote:
Hey guys...I'm really tired of reading the idea on here that homosexuality needs to be "treated" in some way in order to get rid of it.  

I don't think that's even possible. hetrosexuality can't be treated either. (well, in my case anyway... anyone who feels they could be changed raise their hand)

Homosexuality, whether genetic or socially adopted makes no difference.  People will try to argue that if it's not genetic then it is a choice, but I personally can't identify exactly when I start "choosing" to find certain people attractive over others, and I'm surprised that some straight people are so amazingly gifted as to be able to choose all their feelings and reactions and urges...I however, do not possess such gifts, if I did, I certainly would never hurt again.

I never made any choice. I'm a hardwired hetrosexual. Choice would be impossible for me. I think people who experience "choice" are bisexual. I think people who can be "converted" are bisexual too. There's no hetrosexual gene, but I still never made a choice.

At the same time, I understand being afraid of something different, I understand being more interested in "being right" than admitting you might be an ass, we all have that problem, it's a human wiring thing, and because I understand these things, and do them myself from time to time, I have nothing but love for you, what do you have for me?

How about a handshake :lol:;-)