Fair enough, maybe you could check the adaptor you have to see if it's connected straight through or if it contains transistors. My bet is that it's just connected straight through (or possibly with resistors on some lines) rather than being buffered.
Just had a look at AmigaKit's website - they don't specify whether their adaptor is buffered, so maybe send them a mail to find out. A quick search of Aminet gave me these: ami2vga.lha and VGA_Hack.lha both use a TTL chip to do the buffering job, which probably works very well and shouldn't be too difficult to build...