Have you actually played some of these modern games? It's not an attack but i think for someone to criticise something they first have to know what they are talking about. You have many times in the past stated you have no interest in modern games and hardware but at the same time you are quick to dismiss them 
I think some games like call of duty are quite realistic. I feel this game has taught me a lot and it has been a real opener in certain ways. Same for other games too. Also don't forget about VR which has been used succesfully to treat certain conditions. My point is games can approach a certain realism that can not be denied.
Realistic hmmm maybe boring as hell ofcourse and before you say anything i actually have all those games on steam, inc black ops and bad company 2 etc etc although with a whole mess of others.. funny thing is i can't stand to play them more then an hour before i get bored and yes i am quite good at them.
Also to state that games like call of duty has taught you anything??
Have you ever held a real gun and pointed at something/someone living and pull the trigger?
I think these day young people take games to seriously... unless you are using educational software i don't see how you can learn from them.. and lol trying to put first person shooters in real world would be a great way to get your self dead. Trust me no matter how much the "dynamics" are "real" there not...... well not when it comes to snipering and ballistics.