@Wayne: I'm scared to say much more, even in the form of an extended apology; in case I get yet more people taking the original argument out of context and wanting to ram a rod down my spine for not feeling sorry enough to commit suicide.
I think things are way beyond the original argument with Red now. It seems the only purpose of the continued banter is in trying to explain to others (who had nothing to do with the thread) why the argument started in the first place and the reason why people were agitated. But that seems like a hopeless task, so I for one will quit fanning the flames and just hope this mess fades away.
I really hope Red reads the apology I gave and somehow understands that, at least for my part, there was no real malicious intent involved and it certainly was not about him personally. Hopefully he will even appreciate to some degree why people were upset.
There's absolutely NO reason for him to leave the Amiga community, as far as I see he has no enemies - just people that disagree on certain things and you find that in all areas of life. And most of us don't just quit life.
ah, well, that's my very last word on this.