Ah well might as well put out any ideas I have had.
1. Mount the current chip in question, get another one and a socket and do it the usual way. This somewhat simplifies things... it's also quite wasteful and dovetails horribly with the idea of prototyping the design this way before making changes and ordering new pcbs.
2. Take a small cube of... wood, or something. Run metal pins up the side and put it in place as a dummy or standin "chip", then get a socket for the underside of the flying-board and proceed as planned. This is better in that it's less wasteful, and the design won't need to cope with disabling or ignoring whatever chip it's clipped over.
3. erm... I dunno that's why I'm here :-D
Andy