Firstly, I wouldn't do business with anyone who uses grammar like his. Secondly, I also avoid buying from sellers who insist on more than 30 days to receive item -- eBay and PayPal both only provide coverage for problems within 30 days. I have done enough shipping via eBay over the years to know that I can get items from just about anywhere in the world in about seven to 14 days. Eight weeks delivery is plain treachery.
All this aside, it really seems like he should quit selling on eBay considering the number of frauds with which he has to deal. I would have quit a long time ago if I have the ratio of frauds to good buyers he has.